"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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It's either I get laid or I get to the friend zone, there's no in between

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the_govner

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What is my problem???? I think I play it too safe with the girls I actually like.

So I have a situation, there's this girl that Ive been acquainted with for awhile now, friend of a friend, and she's always had a boyfriend. Nice, good looking, down to earth chick.

so she moved to australia to take her masters, and noticed on her fb that she's single now. So I start chatting her up on messenger, maybe about once a week for like 3 months. very friendly, hardly any flirting or anything. Just getting to know each other basically.

So she's coming back in about 3 weeks and I guess I'll take her out, do you think chatting has gotten me the friendzone though? I haven't taken any 'chat risks' or anything like that. I call her love sometimes, you know like brb love, **** like that.

Anyway, does anyone have this either get laid or friendzone problem? no in between?
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Your not doing some things right. If there's no in-between for you there's clearly in your game, which brings me to the conclusion that most of the girls your getting f-closes with are of the slutty variety.
 
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Dante420 said:
Your not doing some things right. If there's no in-between for you there's clearly in your game, which brings me to the conclusion that most of the girls your getting f-closes with are of the slutty variety.
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they aren't sluts really, some are really desirable women. But when I don't see them as long term material, i take more risks and have that don't care attitude and i close.

the in between is good quality dating with ltr potential.
 
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