“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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It's either I get laid or I get to the friend zone, there's no in between

the_govner

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What is my problem???? I think I play it too safe with the girls I actually like.

So I have a situation, there's this girl that Ive been acquainted with for awhile now, friend of a friend, and she's always had a boyfriend. Nice, good looking, down to earth chick.

so she moved to australia to take her masters, and noticed on her fb that she's single now. So I start chatting her up on messenger, maybe about once a week for like 3 months. very friendly, hardly any flirting or anything. Just getting to know each other basically.

So she's coming back in about 3 weeks and I guess I'll take her out, do you think chatting has gotten me the friendzone though? I haven't taken any 'chat risks' or anything like that. I call her love sometimes, you know like brb love, **** like that.

Anyway, does anyone have this either get laid or friendzone problem? no in between?
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Dante420

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Your not doing some things right. If there's no in-between for you there's clearly in your game, which brings me to the conclusion that most of the girls your getting f-closes with are of the slutty variety.
 

the_govner

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Dante420 said:
Your not doing some things right. If there's no in-between for you there's clearly in your game, which brings me to the conclusion that most of the girls your getting f-closes with are of the slutty variety.

they aren't sluts really, some are really desirable women. But when I don't see them as long term material, i take more risks and have that don't care attitude and i close.

the in between is good quality dating with ltr potential.
 
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