"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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It's either I get laid or I get to the friend zone, there's no in between

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the_govner

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What is my problem???? I think I play it too safe with the girls I actually like.

So I have a situation, there's this girl that Ive been acquainted with for awhile now, friend of a friend, and she's always had a boyfriend. Nice, good looking, down to earth chick.

so she moved to australia to take her masters, and noticed on her fb that she's single now. So I start chatting her up on messenger, maybe about once a week for like 3 months. very friendly, hardly any flirting or anything. Just getting to know each other basically.

So she's coming back in about 3 weeks and I guess I'll take her out, do you think chatting has gotten me the friendzone though? I haven't taken any 'chat risks' or anything like that. I call her love sometimes, you know like brb love, **** like that.

Anyway, does anyone have this either get laid or friendzone problem? no in between?
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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Your not doing some things right. If there's no in-between for you there's clearly in your game, which brings me to the conclusion that most of the girls your getting f-closes with are of the slutty variety.
 
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Dante420 said:
Your not doing some things right. If there's no in-between for you there's clearly in your game, which brings me to the conclusion that most of the girls your getting f-closes with are of the slutty variety.
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they aren't sluts really, some are really desirable women. But when I don't see them as long term material, i take more risks and have that don't care attitude and i close.

the in between is good quality dating with ltr potential.
 
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