"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
Its a miracle this place is still around
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"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
Travel memoir21
Master Don Juan
I just go here to socialize mostly. I hope it doesn't get taken down by Social justice warriors and critical, cynical liberals.
For the most part yes help me get over my public speaking I finally got a girlfriend in high school
Good for you man
Plinco
Master Don Juan
Good job
"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
Serenity
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Given how long this forum has existed and the fact that it has remained fairly active through all of that time, it's surprising it hasn't ever been brigaded by an army of those trolls. At least I haven't ever heard of that happening here. In any case I'd become really busy if it happened...
They'd have a very hard time taking down an independent website anyways. It's far from as simple as getting stuff on third party platforms (Facebook, YouTube, Reddit etc.) taken down, where rights don't exist. It can't be "taken down" because they have nobody to turn to with their demands except the owner, he fully owns and controls this website and the domains to it.
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Also as Serenity said, there is no general overlord that is switching something off within his domain only cause enough people cry for it.