"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
Its a miracle this place is still around
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"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
Travel memoir21
Master Don Juan
I just go here to socialize mostly. I hope it doesn't get taken down by Social justice warriors and critical, cynical liberals.
For the most part yes help me get over my public speaking I finally got a girlfriend in high school
Good for you man
Plinco
Master Don Juan
Good job
"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
Serenity
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Given how long this forum has existed and the fact that it has remained fairly active through all of that time, it's surprising it hasn't ever been brigaded by an army of those trolls. At least I haven't ever heard of that happening here. In any case I'd become really busy if it happened...
They'd have a very hard time taking down an independent website anyways. It's far from as simple as getting stuff on third party platforms (Facebook, YouTube, Reddit etc.) taken down, where rights don't exist. It can't be "taken down" because they have nobody to turn to with their demands except the owner, he fully owns and controls this website and the domains to it.
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Also as Serenity said, there is no general overlord that is switching something off within his domain only cause enough people cry for it.