"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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It takes 21 days to break a habit: 21 days no masturbation: The 3 week plan w/options

ThunderMaverick

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Yep I'm on 1/14 days no masturbation.

I'm going to up it to 25 days!

1/25 now!
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Day one complete!! I feel GREAT!

Day 2/25 in progress.


Maverick: You do know why I am upping it to 25.. right? It takes 21 days to break a habit according to those psycho-logists. So I figure add a few days to be safe. If you still want it by the end of the 25, you need to up it again. 21 days is the average, some people take more time, some take less.

Maverick, Good luck to you man.


On a side note: You wanna race? See who gets there first and who breaks?
 

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1) No porn.
2) No sexual imagery in the mind
3) don't touch it even if your only not masturbating.

try to be very busy, and try your best to adhere to the rules the first 1-3 days. the 21 day is somewhat true, I never could get past 21 days doing this.
 

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Call_Me_Daddy said:
Day one complete!! I feel GREAT!

Day 2/25 in progress.


Maverick: You do know why I am upping it to 25.. right? It takes 21 days to break a habit according to those psycho-logists. So I figure add a few days to be safe. If you still want it by the end of the 25, you need to up it again. 21 days is the average, some people take more time, some take less.

Maverick, Good luck to you man.


On a side note: You wanna race? See who gets there first and who breaks?

This is incredibly geeky, but....alright!Hahaha

I'm down to race! Also, I read about your reasons for upping it to 25 days too so that's a great thing.


Hmmm. What other habbits do I need flushed out of my system.

Ok! No soda for 25 days either! I mean I tried to swear off soda, went a few weeks without it but I've drank a couple of cans in the past few days.

So I've been without soda for 2 days now that means
2/25.

No fast food either!!! 0/25
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Yeeeehaw
Day 5/21
I Feel much more lively and i know what you guys mean by the energy already lol. I dont even feel like sleeping anymore haha. Lets keep it up bros
 

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Whoa!! Hold your horses ther maverick! You want to do all that at once?

Seems like alot to me.

Why don't you just cut down the soda and junk? Or eat healthy stuff with it like vegetables and whatnot? Otherwise... you might snap.
 

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sounds like every thing y'all are doing is improving your game so count me in

1/21


---Zin

---P.S. if you were religious wouldnt you be against pick up(you know who you are)
 

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Day 2 for me, have to try and break my lowly record of 5 days.
 

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Yeah...I just got back from seeing a screening of Fast Food Nation and it made me really hungry for a hamburger. I have to start over again. -_-


Fast food 0/25

But I'm still going strong on the no soda no masturbation part!
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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Gateway

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1/21 for me boys hope i dont wuss out the last time i only made it to 2weeks but then my porn got me so i just deleted it all probably not as much as the rest of y'all(30gigs are you serious)but still had enough to let it ***.


---Zin
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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i almost gave in today i was watching porn on T.V. and all of a sudden my brain told me to masturbate like it was normal cause i was so used to it damn that was close, got to stop watching porn!!


---Zin

2/21


---P.S. how come no twillight isnt postin anymore
 

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Hahah good save, Gateway!


3/25 days no jackin' off!

1 day without fast food 1/25


4 days no soda! 4/25
 

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let me just say that everytime i stop masturbating for a week, i end up scoring with some girl. :D Im much more motivated to do it and the extra testosterone makes me feel less anxious.

This time im gonna go as far as i can, see what happens.

day 2
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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