"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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It takes 21 days to break a habit: 21 days no masturbation: The 3 week plan w/options

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Yep I'm on 1/14 days no masturbation.

I'm going to up it to 25 days!

1/25 now!
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Day one complete!! I feel GREAT!

Day 2/25 in progress.


Maverick: You do know why I am upping it to 25.. right? It takes 21 days to break a habit according to those psycho-logists. So I figure add a few days to be safe. If you still want it by the end of the 25, you need to up it again. 21 days is the average, some people take more time, some take less.

Maverick, Good luck to you man.


On a side note: You wanna race? See who gets there first and who breaks?
 
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1) No porn.
2) No sexual imagery in the mind
3) don't touch it even if your only not masturbating.

try to be very busy, and try your best to adhere to the rules the first 1-3 days. the 21 day is somewhat true, I never could get past 21 days doing this.
 
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Call_Me_Daddy said:
Day one complete!! I feel GREAT!

Day 2/25 in progress.


Maverick: You do know why I am upping it to 25.. right? It takes 21 days to break a habit according to those psycho-logists. So I figure add a few days to be safe. If you still want it by the end of the 25, you need to up it again. 21 days is the average, some people take more time, some take less.

Maverick, Good luck to you man.


On a side note: You wanna race? See who gets there first and who breaks?
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This is incredibly geeky, but....alright!Hahaha

I'm down to race! Also, I read about your reasons for upping it to 25 days too so that's a great thing.


Hmmm. What other habbits do I need flushed out of my system.

Ok! No soda for 25 days either! I mean I tried to swear off soda, went a few weeks without it but I've drank a couple of cans in the past few days.

So I've been without soda for 2 days now that means
2/25.

No fast food either!!! 0/25
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Yeeeehaw
Day 5/21
I Feel much more lively and i know what you guys mean by the energy already lol. I dont even feel like sleeping anymore haha. Lets keep it up bros
 
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Whoa!! Hold your horses ther maverick! You want to do all that at once?

Seems like alot to me.

Why don't you just cut down the soda and junk? Or eat healthy stuff with it like vegetables and whatnot? Otherwise... you might snap.
 
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sounds like every thing y'all are doing is improving your game so count me in

1/21


---Zin

---P.S. if you were religious wouldnt you be against pick up(you know who you are)
 
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Day 2 for me, have to try and break my lowly record of 5 days.
 
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Yeah...I just got back from seeing a screening of Fast Food Nation and it made me really hungry for a hamburger. I have to start over again. -_-


Fast food 0/25

But I'm still going strong on the no soda no masturbation part!
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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1/21 for me boys hope i dont wuss out the last time i only made it to 2weeks but then my porn got me so i just deleted it all probably not as much as the rest of y'all(30gigs are you serious)but still had enough to let it ***.


---Zin
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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i almost gave in today i was watching porn on T.V. and all of a sudden my brain told me to masturbate like it was normal cause i was so used to it damn that was close, got to stop watching porn!!


---Zin

2/21


---P.S. how come no twillight isnt postin anymore
 
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Hahah good save, Gateway!


3/25 days no jackin' off!

1 day without fast food 1/25


4 days no soda! 4/25
 
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let me just say that everytime i stop masturbating for a week, i end up scoring with some girl. :D Im much more motivated to do it and the extra testosterone makes me feel less anxious.

This time im gonna go as far as i can, see what happens.

day 2
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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