don juan jr
Don Juan
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F*ck...
Day 1 almost done
Day 1 almost done
"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
It takes 21 days to break a habit: 21 days no masturbation: The 3 week plan w/options
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"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
T Money
Senior Don Juan
i went 3 weeks, maybe even more, I don't know. Then I got together with this girl started dating her, having sex with her, then she said "aight, peace out T, i'm done with you." pretty much.
Started jerkin' again dammit.
i'm in. 2/21.
Started jerkin' again dammit.
i'm in. 2/21.
"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
Brian20o2
Master Don Juan
Day 8...
First 21 days then 6 months
First 21 days then 6 months
jack knife
Don Juan
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I'm in.
...starting tomorrow.
...starting tomorrow.
7/21...Went to this club last night where the girls were pretty young and the social personas were *very* thick, tough environment to sarge in. Got a few approaches in anyway....this restaurant/club I'm going to tonight should be much better. I let you guys know how that goes.
Brian20o2
Master Don Juan
Broke the day 8 barrier. Day 9, going all the way.
Brian20o2
Master Don Juan
Couldnt do it. Had to today.But now that I know I can hit day 9I think I can go all the way. No porn either.Brian20o2 said:
"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
8/21...There was a definite lack of targets this weekend, due to the rain I'm guessing. Club sarging starts again on Thursday, looking forward to it. May have to dump my long distance LTR soon (even tho she's hot & bi 
) She wants more commitment than I can give her right now, especially with the distance plus my conflicting commitment to learning this skill right now.
) She wants more commitment than I can give her right now, especially with the distance plus my conflicting commitment to learning this skill right now.Brian20o2
Master Don Juan
Day 1, No porn, Sarge AMAP (As Much As Possible)
Buck Rogers
Don Juan
beginning day one, ive tried this befre so many times, i lasted 15 days last time and the was a hell of a difference, so im going all the way this time. did anybody notice though that their dreams were more vivid?
Yeah definitely, check the early past posts in this very thread. I dreamt a cashier at a video store gave me a stack of hundreds and the wrong video by accident, that **** seemed so real. I wasn't mad about the wrong video btwBuck Rogers said:
..."She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
T Money
Senior Don Juan
I think i'm on 4 or something...when i don't do it, I forget about it and don't evn care how long it's been.
Buck Rogers
Don Juan
i have a question.
NOw i usually jack off due to the fact im struggling to get to sleep, im currently on day 2 of the latest attempt of breking my habit. Can somebody explain a good way of avoiding beating the meat before bed if your having trouble sleeping?
NOw i usually jack off due to the fact im struggling to get to sleep, im currently on day 2 of the latest attempt of breking my habit. Can somebody explain a good way of avoiding beating the meat before bed if your having trouble sleeping?
Call_Me_Daddy
Master Don Juan
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This is something I want to get rid of.
I'll join in. Except I'm going for 25 days.
Day one started today.
0/25
I'll join in. Except I'm going for 25 days.
Day one started today.
0/25
"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.