don juan jr
Don Juan
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F*ck...
Day 1 almost done
Day 1 almost done
“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”
Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.
Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers. Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.
I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.
It takes 21 days to break a habit: 21 days no masturbation: The 3 week plan w/options
- Thread starter twilight
- Start date
"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
T Money
Senior Don Juan
i went 3 weeks, maybe even more, I don't know. Then I got together with this girl started dating her, having sex with her, then she said "aight, peace out T, i'm done with you." pretty much.
Started jerkin' again dammit.
i'm in. 2/21.
Started jerkin' again dammit.
i'm in. 2/21.
"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
Brian20o2
Master Don Juan
Day 8...
First 21 days then 6 months
First 21 days then 6 months
jack knife
Don Juan
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I'm in.
...starting tomorrow.
...starting tomorrow.
7/21...Went to this club last night where the girls were pretty young and the social personas were *very* thick, tough environment to sarge in. Got a few approaches in anyway....this restaurant/club I'm going to tonight should be much better. I let you guys know how that goes.
Brian20o2
Master Don Juan
Broke the day 8 barrier. Day 9, going all the way.
Brian20o2
Master Don Juan
Couldnt do it. Had to today.But now that I know I can hit day 9I think I can go all the way. No porn either.Brian20o2 said:
"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
8/21...There was a definite lack of targets this weekend, due to the rain I'm guessing. Club sarging starts again on Thursday, looking forward to it. May have to dump my long distance LTR soon (even tho she's hot & bi 
) She wants more commitment than I can give her right now, especially with the distance plus my conflicting commitment to learning this skill right now.
) She wants more commitment than I can give her right now, especially with the distance plus my conflicting commitment to learning this skill right now.Brian20o2
Master Don Juan
Day 1, No porn, Sarge AMAP (As Much As Possible)
Buck Rogers
Don Juan
beginning day one, ive tried this befre so many times, i lasted 15 days last time and the was a hell of a difference, so im going all the way this time. did anybody notice though that their dreams were more vivid?
Yeah definitely, check the early past posts in this very thread. I dreamt a cashier at a video store gave me a stack of hundreds and the wrong video by accident, that **** seemed so real. I wasn't mad about the wrong video btwBuck Rogers said:
..."She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
T Money
Senior Don Juan
I think i'm on 4 or something...when i don't do it, I forget about it and don't evn care how long it's been.
Buck Rogers
Don Juan
i have a question.
NOw i usually jack off due to the fact im struggling to get to sleep, im currently on day 2 of the latest attempt of breking my habit. Can somebody explain a good way of avoiding beating the meat before bed if your having trouble sleeping?
NOw i usually jack off due to the fact im struggling to get to sleep, im currently on day 2 of the latest attempt of breking my habit. Can somebody explain a good way of avoiding beating the meat before bed if your having trouble sleeping?
Call_Me_Daddy
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This is something I want to get rid of.
I'll join in. Except I'm going for 25 days.
Day one started today.
0/25
I'll join in. Except I'm going for 25 days.
Day one started today.
0/25
"She's Out of Your League"
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.