"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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It takes 21 days to break a habit: 21 days no masturbation: The 3 week plan w/options

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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6/21...Didn't get to sarge last night, feeling sarge withdrawal. Going to a new spot (club) tonight, I'll let u guys know how that goes...
 

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i went 3 weeks, maybe even more, I don't know. Then I got together with this girl started dating her, having sex with her, then she said "aight, peace out T, i'm done with you." pretty much.

Started jerkin' again dammit.

i'm in. 2/21.
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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7/21...Went to this club last night where the girls were pretty young and the social personas were *very* thick, tough environment to sarge in. Got a few approaches in anyway....this restaurant/club I'm going to tonight should be much better. I let you guys know how that goes.
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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8/21...There was a definite lack of targets this weekend, due to the rain I'm guessing. Club sarging starts again on Thursday, looking forward to it. May have to dump my long distance LTR soon (even tho she's hot & bi :( ) She wants more commitment than I can give her right now, especially with the distance plus my conflicting commitment to learning this skill right now.
 

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beginning day one, ive tried this befre so many times, i lasted 15 days last time and the was a hell of a difference, so im going all the way this time. did anybody notice though that their dreams were more vivid?
 

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Buck Rogers said:
did anybody notice though that their dreams were more vivid?
Yeah definitely, check the early past posts in this very thread. I dreamt a cashier at a video store gave me a stack of hundreds and the wrong video by accident, that **** seemed so real. I wasn't mad about the wrong video btw ;) ...
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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I think i'm on 4 or something...when i don't do it, I forget about it and don't evn care how long it's been.
 

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i have a question.

NOw i usually jack off due to the fact im struggling to get to sleep, im currently on day 2 of the latest attempt of breking my habit. Can somebody explain a good way of avoiding beating the meat before bed if your having trouble sleeping?
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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