don juan jr
Don Juan
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F*ck...
Day 1 almost done
Day 1 almost done
"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
It takes 21 days to break a habit: 21 days no masturbation: The 3 week plan w/options
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"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
T Money
Senior Don Juan
i went 3 weeks, maybe even more, I don't know. Then I got together with this girl started dating her, having sex with her, then she said "aight, peace out T, i'm done with you." pretty much.
Started jerkin' again dammit.
i'm in. 2/21.
Started jerkin' again dammit.
i'm in. 2/21.
"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
Brian20o2
Master Don Juan
Day 8...
First 21 days then 6 months
First 21 days then 6 months
jack knife
Don Juan
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I'm in.
...starting tomorrow.
...starting tomorrow.
7/21...Went to this club last night where the girls were pretty young and the social personas were *very* thick, tough environment to sarge in. Got a few approaches in anyway....this restaurant/club I'm going to tonight should be much better. I let you guys know how that goes.
Brian20o2
Master Don Juan
Broke the day 8 barrier. Day 9, going all the way.
Brian20o2
Master Don Juan
Couldnt do it. Had to today.But now that I know I can hit day 9I think I can go all the way. No porn either.Brian20o2 said:
"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"
You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.
She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.
Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.
Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.
8/21...There was a definite lack of targets this weekend, due to the rain I'm guessing. Club sarging starts again on Thursday, looking forward to it. May have to dump my long distance LTR soon (even tho she's hot & bi 
) She wants more commitment than I can give her right now, especially with the distance plus my conflicting commitment to learning this skill right now.
) She wants more commitment than I can give her right now, especially with the distance plus my conflicting commitment to learning this skill right now.Brian20o2
Master Don Juan
Day 1, No porn, Sarge AMAP (As Much As Possible)
Buck Rogers
Don Juan
beginning day one, ive tried this befre so many times, i lasted 15 days last time and the was a hell of a difference, so im going all the way this time. did anybody notice though that their dreams were more vivid?
Yeah definitely, check the early past posts in this very thread. I dreamt a cashier at a video store gave me a stack of hundreds and the wrong video by accident, that **** seemed so real. I wasn't mad about the wrong video btwBuck Rogers said:
..."You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"
You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.
She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.
Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.
Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.
T Money
Senior Don Juan
I think i'm on 4 or something...when i don't do it, I forget about it and don't evn care how long it's been.
Buck Rogers
Don Juan
i have a question.
NOw i usually jack off due to the fact im struggling to get to sleep, im currently on day 2 of the latest attempt of breking my habit. Can somebody explain a good way of avoiding beating the meat before bed if your having trouble sleeping?
NOw i usually jack off due to the fact im struggling to get to sleep, im currently on day 2 of the latest attempt of breking my habit. Can somebody explain a good way of avoiding beating the meat before bed if your having trouble sleeping?
Call_Me_Daddy
Master Don Juan
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This is something I want to get rid of.
I'll join in. Except I'm going for 25 days.
Day one started today.
0/25
I'll join in. Except I'm going for 25 days.
Day one started today.
0/25
"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.