"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
It takes 21 days to break a habit: 21 days no masturbation: The 3 week plan w/options
- Thread starter twilight
- Start date
"She's Out of Your League"
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
brucevangeorge
Banned
How the hell do you stop that? Tha's one of the reasons I falied so much. It literally drove me nuts. I went to sleep late and woke up earlier because of those crazy ass dreams.twilight said:
Not only that but I was anxious all the time. Had more emotion than usual. Mostly pissed off. I didn't give a **** about anything.
How do you make that **** go away?
Cranky Monk
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MagikDude
Don Juan
“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”
You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.
I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.
Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.
These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.
chickenlegs03
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had some incredibly vivid dreams last night, and woke up to a massive hard-on.
anyway, guess i'll be heading over to the 6 month challenge soon.
thanks guys for the support and for the great thread that got me started on this.
good luck to the rest of you guys...and hope you can join the other thread soon
Nexxus
Senior Don Juan
I was sick the last week so I'm startin' again from 0
so happy finally i can go out again... will definitely do somethin tonight
brucevangeorge
Banned
Damn guys. How do you get past all the weird feelings? When you are brimming with energy? The scary-ass vivid dreams? The extreeme horniness?
DAY 1/21
il_duce
Master Don Juan
Had another dream last night. Seriously, I think I've woken up with a hard-on every day since I've started. Don't think I'd feel normal if I didn't.
"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
PumpNightmare
Don Juan
Damn. Its hard to do this with a night like last night. Went to Bullwinkles here in Tally, drank some and danced some. Although, didn't get much conversation in, but its a start. I need to remember to wait till 10~11pm to go instead of 9pm...not much going on till at least 11pm.
Cranky Monk
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But that said, I don't feel too bad about it. This is a new record for me, and resisting the urge actually got easier as time passed - helped by the momentum of keeping busy, the habit being present in the moment, and the extra motivation of not breaking the streak.
The effect of the T-boost is quite real. I don't feel very different emotionally and physically, but looking back over my actions and attitudes of the past week, I've been more focused and engaging than my normal behaviour. And I like it!
Day 1 tomrorow!
don juan jr
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"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
brucevangeorge
Banned
il_duce
Master Don Juan
Cranky Monk
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PumpNightmare
Don Juan
One week down, two to go. Hopefuly I'll have better luck at the bar/club(s) this upcoming Friday.
“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”
Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.
Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers. Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.
I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.