"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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It is about that time guys...

Oxide

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Alright, it is the middle of summer, the best season for having fun with girls.. what do you have to show for yourself? Nothing? No girls, no kisses, no romance? Well, loverboy, why the hell not? Oh, you have been "busy"? You know, time to cut the bullsh1t. The reason we are not getting what we want this summer is because we are SLACKING. That is right, we are slacking on our macking. Hell, ok i went out with a couple of girls and got intimate with one, but that is NOWHERE close to where i wanted to be this summer. How many girls are walking out there around malls, dressed to impress, waiting for a guy to talk to them? And this is while we are at home reading the newest posts on "uber DJ forum"?! Pathetic!

Now i am not going with the same old "leave this site". Nobody needs to leave anything. All i am saying, I am going to take a monthly break right now, till the 9th of August (or longer) and i want YOU to come along.

There is a catch though.. in order for this to work you need to set up a goal, and work on hitting that goal. Mine right now is 10 approaches and 2 successful closes a week. For this week i still got to approach 8 girls and ask 1 out. I have two days, and i better get started.

I know there are going to be people who will along with this, but i gotta warn you, most of the time you "leave sosuave", you end up going into some other forum or videogames to fill up that gap. Dont fall for this. Instead, go out and look for some approaches, work on hitting that goal, becuase now you actually do have the perfect time to do this.

Alright, now sign up and let's do this. See you in a month.

P.S. I know there is NO WAY IN HELL Gigalo is going to go through with this, care to prove me wrong? :) ;)

(I am not even going to look for any replies to this thread until i comeback, so dont leave any personal comments, just sing your name and click "log out")
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Heyjose25points

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I'd come along with you but I'm out of shape right now, when i get cut, i'll come along :)
 

skyjcky

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I'm a ***** when it comes to *****es, but you know, its getting worked out. This site def gives some advice you cant find anywhere else, so thanks 'fellow DJ's' PEACE
 

Eulogy

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"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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Schlep

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Summer is horrible for this stuff in a college town. Fall/football season is when everything gets a little nuts.
 
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