"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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It is about that time guys...

Oxide

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Alright, it is the middle of summer, the best season for having fun with girls.. what do you have to show for yourself? Nothing? No girls, no kisses, no romance? Well, loverboy, why the hell not? Oh, you have been "busy"? You know, time to cut the bullsh1t. The reason we are not getting what we want this summer is because we are SLACKING. That is right, we are slacking on our macking. Hell, ok i went out with a couple of girls and got intimate with one, but that is NOWHERE close to where i wanted to be this summer. How many girls are walking out there around malls, dressed to impress, waiting for a guy to talk to them? And this is while we are at home reading the newest posts on "uber DJ forum"?! Pathetic!

Now i am not going with the same old "leave this site". Nobody needs to leave anything. All i am saying, I am going to take a monthly break right now, till the 9th of August (or longer) and i want YOU to come along.

There is a catch though.. in order for this to work you need to set up a goal, and work on hitting that goal. Mine right now is 10 approaches and 2 successful closes a week. For this week i still got to approach 8 girls and ask 1 out. I have two days, and i better get started.

I know there are going to be people who will along with this, but i gotta warn you, most of the time you "leave sosuave", you end up going into some other forum or videogames to fill up that gap. Dont fall for this. Instead, go out and look for some approaches, work on hitting that goal, becuase now you actually do have the perfect time to do this.

Alright, now sign up and let's do this. See you in a month.

P.S. I know there is NO WAY IN HELL Gigalo is going to go through with this, care to prove me wrong? :) ;)

(I am not even going to look for any replies to this thread until i comeback, so dont leave any personal comments, just sing your name and click "log out")
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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Heyjose25points

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I'd come along with you but I'm out of shape right now, when i get cut, i'll come along :)
 

skyjcky

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I'm a ***** when it comes to *****es, but you know, its getting worked out. This site def gives some advice you cant find anywhere else, so thanks 'fellow DJ's' PEACE
 

Eulogy

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"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Summer is horrible for this stuff in a college town. Fall/football season is when everything gets a little nuts.
 
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