Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single

She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.

You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.

The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.

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It is about that time guys...

Oxide

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Alright, it is the middle of summer, the best season for having fun with girls.. what do you have to show for yourself? Nothing? No girls, no kisses, no romance? Well, loverboy, why the hell not? Oh, you have been "busy"? You know, time to cut the bullsh1t. The reason we are not getting what we want this summer is because we are SLACKING. That is right, we are slacking on our macking. Hell, ok i went out with a couple of girls and got intimate with one, but that is NOWHERE close to where i wanted to be this summer. How many girls are walking out there around malls, dressed to impress, waiting for a guy to talk to them? And this is while we are at home reading the newest posts on "uber DJ forum"?! Pathetic!

Now i am not going with the same old "leave this site". Nobody needs to leave anything. All i am saying, I am going to take a monthly break right now, till the 9th of August (or longer) and i want YOU to come along.

There is a catch though.. in order for this to work you need to set up a goal, and work on hitting that goal. Mine right now is 10 approaches and 2 successful closes a week. For this week i still got to approach 8 girls and ask 1 out. I have two days, and i better get started.

I know there are going to be people who will along with this, but i gotta warn you, most of the time you "leave sosuave", you end up going into some other forum or videogames to fill up that gap. Dont fall for this. Instead, go out and look for some approaches, work on hitting that goal, becuase now you actually do have the perfect time to do this.

Alright, now sign up and let's do this. See you in a month.

P.S. I know there is NO WAY IN HELL Gigalo is going to go through with this, care to prove me wrong? :) ;)

(I am not even going to look for any replies to this thread until i comeback, so dont leave any personal comments, just sing your name and click "log out")
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Heyjose25points

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I'd come along with you but I'm out of shape right now, when i get cut, i'll come along :)
 

skyjcky

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I'm a ***** when it comes to *****es, but you know, its getting worked out. This site def gives some advice you cant find anywhere else, so thanks 'fellow DJ's' PEACE
 

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“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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Summer is horrible for this stuff in a college town. Fall/football season is when everything gets a little nuts.
 
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