"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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It is about that time guys...

Oxide

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Alright, it is the middle of summer, the best season for having fun with girls.. what do you have to show for yourself? Nothing? No girls, no kisses, no romance? Well, loverboy, why the hell not? Oh, you have been "busy"? You know, time to cut the bullsh1t. The reason we are not getting what we want this summer is because we are SLACKING. That is right, we are slacking on our macking. Hell, ok i went out with a couple of girls and got intimate with one, but that is NOWHERE close to where i wanted to be this summer. How many girls are walking out there around malls, dressed to impress, waiting for a guy to talk to them? And this is while we are at home reading the newest posts on "uber DJ forum"?! Pathetic!

Now i am not going with the same old "leave this site". Nobody needs to leave anything. All i am saying, I am going to take a monthly break right now, till the 9th of August (or longer) and i want YOU to come along.

There is a catch though.. in order for this to work you need to set up a goal, and work on hitting that goal. Mine right now is 10 approaches and 2 successful closes a week. For this week i still got to approach 8 girls and ask 1 out. I have two days, and i better get started.

I know there are going to be people who will along with this, but i gotta warn you, most of the time you "leave sosuave", you end up going into some other forum or videogames to fill up that gap. Dont fall for this. Instead, go out and look for some approaches, work on hitting that goal, becuase now you actually do have the perfect time to do this.

Alright, now sign up and let's do this. See you in a month.

P.S. I know there is NO WAY IN HELL Gigalo is going to go through with this, care to prove me wrong? :) ;)

(I am not even going to look for any replies to this thread until i comeback, so dont leave any personal comments, just sing your name and click "log out")
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Heyjose25points

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I'd come along with you but I'm out of shape right now, when i get cut, i'll come along :)
 

skyjcky

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I'm a ***** when it comes to *****es, but you know, its getting worked out. This site def gives some advice you cant find anywhere else, so thanks 'fellow DJ's' PEACE
 

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"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Summer is horrible for this stuff in a college town. Fall/football season is when everything gets a little nuts.
 
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