"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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Issues with escalation/isolation

XThrax

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I have improved my approaches over the last few months within night game. But I keep running into the same problem. For example...
I might be talking to this girl for a little while but I cant decided when its time to "Hey lets talk over there" isolation move. Or a situation when I am with a friend and she is with a friend but I want to change venues with only her.

What do you guys do in this kind of situation, and when/how do you decided to escalate?

I know some people wait out the friends to leave, but I think that only increases the chance of blocking.
I imagine I could say something like "Hey me and .... are going to check out this place down the street. We'll be right back" Without much intention of being right back.
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Spaz

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I normally use non verbal communication.

Lock eyes and use it to indicate you would like to speak to her in private.

Followed by a raised eyebrow, if she vibes over an "OK" then make the move 1st, she'll follow soon enough.
 

cola

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Chicks aren’t going to leave their friends to go to another venue alone with you, a stranger .. Unless you play for the Lakers.
PUA nonsense.
Grab a drink with her, build some rapport, get the number and bail.. on the the next chick in the bar.

ONS bar lays are rare even for the most attractive of guys and the chicks who do it often are either crazy, low value or overly-promiscuous.

Get her out on a date away from her friends, then you can whip your d*ck out all you want.
 
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lamath

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Isolation cant be that hard.
You tell her come with me outside i need fresh air, or you bringnher to the bar, dance floor.

For me the best indicator is eye contact
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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