MatureDJ
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"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
Is weight loss a "Western value" that is political in nature and whose benefits are not "factual"?
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"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
wifehunter
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I'd don't mind fat people. Fatness is an easy indicator of a low quality person. I just keep it short, and stay away.
wifehunter
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I would even call into question, this genetically programmed BS, too.
"She's Out of Your League"
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
zekko
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A lot of what was taught to be healthy eating when I was growing up has since been found to be incorrect. Even now, there are a lot of different ideas on what constitutes healthy eating. I guess you could look at it as different philosophical options. Maybe they have it figured out, or maybe they don't.
The fact that the West needs weight loss is a luxury. If everyone was starving, obviously we wouldn't have fat people.
The fact that the West needs weight loss is a luxury. If everyone was starving, obviously we wouldn't have fat people.
