MatureDJ
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"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
Is weight loss a "Western value" that is political in nature and whose benefits are not "factual"?
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"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
wifehunter
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I'd don't mind fat people. Fatness is an easy indicator of a low quality person. I just keep it short, and stay away.
wifehunter
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I would even call into question, this genetically programmed BS, too.
"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
zekko
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A lot of what was taught to be healthy eating when I was growing up has since been found to be incorrect. Even now, there are a lot of different ideas on what constitutes healthy eating. I guess you could look at it as different philosophical options. Maybe they have it figured out, or maybe they don't.
The fact that the West needs weight loss is a luxury. If everyone was starving, obviously we wouldn't have fat people.
The fact that the West needs weight loss is a luxury. If everyone was starving, obviously we wouldn't have fat people.
