MatureDJ
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Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single
She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.
You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.
The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.
Is weight loss a "Western value" that is political in nature and whose benefits are not "factual"?
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"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
wifehunter
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I'd don't mind fat people. Fatness is an easy indicator of a low quality person. I just keep it short, and stay away.
wifehunter
Master Don Juan
I would even call into question, this genetically programmed BS, too.
"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
zekko
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A lot of what was taught to be healthy eating when I was growing up has since been found to be incorrect. Even now, there are a lot of different ideas on what constitutes healthy eating. I guess you could look at it as different philosophical options. Maybe they have it figured out, or maybe they don't.
The fact that the West needs weight loss is a luxury. If everyone was starving, obviously we wouldn't have fat people.
The fact that the West needs weight loss is a luxury. If everyone was starving, obviously we wouldn't have fat people.
