DonGiovanni
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I dont mean like the really vague signs I mean like when shes a little more than friendly but im not talking about dtf friendly. Makes any sense?
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You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
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Is Trying to read "signs" a afc move?
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DonGiovanni
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any suggestions?
PapiChulo
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It is and it's not. You should be able to spot them at the right moment. You should not need a lot IOIs to hit on a random girl. On the other hand, people do seek them when it's your co-worker, friend, someone they may see on a daily basis.
The other thing is that body language and flirt are very misleading, as well as shy people may not even resort to it. You may overlook someone with interest and totally misread an attention *****.
I would not completely trust it. The good thing is that you learn to be more observant and responsive.
The other thing is that body language and flirt are very misleading, as well as shy people may not even resort to it. You may overlook someone with interest and totally misread an attention *****.
I would not completely trust it. The good thing is that you learn to be more observant and responsive.
Know any good ones?real2 said:A book on body language will do you wonders! :rockon:
Iceberg
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Exactly. It's about being observant.PapiChulo said:It is and it's not. You should be able to spot them at the right moment. You should not need a lot IOIs to hit on a random girl. On the other hand, people do seek them when it's your co-worker, friend, someone they may see on a daily basis.
The other thing is that body language and flirt are very misleading, as well as shy people may not even resort to it. You may overlook someone with interest and totally misread an attention *****.
I would not completely trust it. The good thing is that you learn to be more observant and responsive.
It would be foolish to totally ignore signs. But the problem is, people here...lesser-experienced people....tend to make big deals out of signs. "She smiles at me and touches her hair. Should I ask her out?" "She crosses her legs towards me!"
It's like...maybe her head itched, man. Start a conversation with her and determine whether or not she's into you. Get more aggressive about creating IOIs instead of waiting for these vague signs. What that means is, start talking. Make jokes. Be proactive. Just a little bit of effort will give you more effort than 2 weeks of reading imaginary signals.
An IOI to me is "Does she laugh at my jokes?" "Does she continue the conversation?" Stuff that happens as a result of my actions. Not weird eye contact rules, hair tossing, and crap like that.
"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
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You read between the lines, to make moves that potentially advance or eject you.
Do you care whether you get signs? No.
Do you care whether you get signs? No.