DonGiovanni
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I dont mean like the really vague signs I mean like when shes a little more than friendly but im not talking about dtf friendly. Makes any sense?
"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
Is Trying to read "signs" a afc move?
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“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”
Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.
Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers. Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.
I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.
DonGiovanni
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any suggestions?
PapiChulo
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It is and it's not. You should be able to spot them at the right moment. You should not need a lot IOIs to hit on a random girl. On the other hand, people do seek them when it's your co-worker, friend, someone they may see on a daily basis.
The other thing is that body language and flirt are very misleading, as well as shy people may not even resort to it. You may overlook someone with interest and totally misread an attention *****.
I would not completely trust it. The good thing is that you learn to be more observant and responsive.
The other thing is that body language and flirt are very misleading, as well as shy people may not even resort to it. You may overlook someone with interest and totally misread an attention *****.
I would not completely trust it. The good thing is that you learn to be more observant and responsive.
Know any good ones?real2 said:A book on body language will do you wonders! :rockon:
Iceberg
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Exactly. It's about being observant.PapiChulo said:It is and it's not. You should be able to spot them at the right moment. You should not need a lot IOIs to hit on a random girl. On the other hand, people do seek them when it's your co-worker, friend, someone they may see on a daily basis.
The other thing is that body language and flirt are very misleading, as well as shy people may not even resort to it. You may overlook someone with interest and totally misread an attention *****.
I would not completely trust it. The good thing is that you learn to be more observant and responsive.
It would be foolish to totally ignore signs. But the problem is, people here...lesser-experienced people....tend to make big deals out of signs. "She smiles at me and touches her hair. Should I ask her out?" "She crosses her legs towards me!"
It's like...maybe her head itched, man. Start a conversation with her and determine whether or not she's into you. Get more aggressive about creating IOIs instead of waiting for these vague signs. What that means is, start talking. Make jokes. Be proactive. Just a little bit of effort will give you more effort than 2 weeks of reading imaginary signals.
An IOI to me is "Does she laugh at my jokes?" "Does she continue the conversation?" Stuff that happens as a result of my actions. Not weird eye contact rules, hair tossing, and crap like that.
"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.
HeyPachuco!
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You read between the lines, to make moves that potentially advance or eject you.
Do you care whether you get signs? No.
Do you care whether you get signs? No.