“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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Is Tinder mainly about looks?

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Bokanovsky said:
Is Tinder, the dating app that allows you to upload pics and nothing more, mainly about looks? No, absolutely not!!
Lmao
 

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teddy said:
Well, as I don't know much about the app, I guess a better way to put this is.. is it even worth using if you're not that great looking? I think that was my question...but I kind of didn't put that when explaining myself.
Try it. It's free and doesn't take up much of your time. You just have to select one or more pics from your facebook account that you want women to see, and then it's kind of like Hot or Not. You are presented with women's profiles, one at a time. If you like her pics, swipe to the right. If you don't, swipe to the left. If both of you liked each other, you can send a message.
 

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4north1side2 said:
How does one being attracted to a woman and getting in contact with her make one an chump? Isn't that the whole point of online dating....
Yes, it is. My point was that there are far more beta's on those sights than alphas. Not that being on the sight makes you a beta.
 

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teddy said:
Well, as I don't know much about the app, I guess a better way to put this is.. is it even worth using if you're not that great looking? I think that was my question...but I kind of didn't put that when explaining myself.
In my opinion - it depends on what you're shooting for. The best looking girls on there? Yeah, you don't have much chance on there. Neither do I (and i consider myself in between average and good looking.) I've been able to get some of the upper level (looks wise) girls on POF in OKC in the past with game; but Tinder is a different ball game. Lots of girls don't respond to game on there.

But if you can ignore that. And go after girls using a simple, "would i bang this girl?" or "would i bang this girl after a few drinks?" (lol) You can probably get a few lays off it. Yes, even if you're not "great" looking.

I will say that most girls on there are very into stuff like Snapchat, Instagram, Twitter, Facetime, etc. And they will treat you like you're a weirdo if you don't have them (i have snapchat but not the rest).

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I banged my first girl off there Saturday night. Fresh out of college 23 yo Nurse still living with parents. Cute face (but her pics were straight hair and she came with really curly hair which i didn't like as much). Tits and @ss for days. Very good in bed.

Only bad thing: She sends me a snapchat last night of a pic of an empty picture frame with a heart around the edge of it... And says "Want your picture to fill this? lol"



Whoa....
 

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I know one girl who used (uses?) Tinder, and it was solely for ego-boosting purposes. I wouldn't waste my time with it.
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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Syrio said:
I know one girl who used (uses?) Tinder, and it was solely for ego-boosting purposes. I wouldn't waste my time with it.
I know one girl who is a lesbian. By that logic, we shouldn't bother with girls, period.
 

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Bokanovsky said:
I know one girl who is a lesbian. By that logic, we shouldn't bother with girls, period.
You misread what I wrote. I said I know ONE girl who uses it, as in out of all the girls I know (which is a lot) only one uses it. And she uses it for ego boosting purposes. Plus that's not the only reason I wouldn't use it but I decided not to get into a whole thing about it.
 

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4north1side2 said:
Dont be discouraged. Ugly girls are sometimes harder to hook up with than hot ones. Maybe because they are less comfortable with their sexuality/ physical appearance.
Tinder has a very low ratio of success. I've had more success with "howAboutwe" its like tinder but you send date ideas to girls.
 
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