"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
Is Tinder mainly about looks?
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"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
Bokanovsky
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Try it. It's free and doesn't take up much of your time. You just have to select one or more pics from your facebook account that you want women to see, and then it's kind of like Hot or Not. You are presented with women's profiles, one at a time. If you like her pics, swipe to the right. If you don't, swipe to the left. If both of you liked each other, you can send a message.teddy said:
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Yes, it is. My point was that there are far more beta's on those sights than alphas. Not that being on the sight makes you a beta.4north1side2 said:
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In my opinion - it depends on what you're shooting for. The best looking girls on there? Yeah, you don't have much chance on there. Neither do I (and i consider myself in between average and good looking.) I've been able to get some of the upper level (looks wise) girls on POF in OKC in the past with game; but Tinder is a different ball game. Lots of girls don't respond to game on there.teddy said:
But if you can ignore that. And go after girls using a simple, "would i bang this girl?" or "would i bang this girl after a few drinks?" (lol) You can probably get a few lays off it. Yes, even if you're not "great" looking.
I will say that most girls on there are very into stuff like Snapchat, Instagram, Twitter, Facetime, etc. And they will treat you like you're a weirdo if you don't have them (i have snapchat but not the rest).
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I banged my first girl off there Saturday night. Fresh out of college 23 yo Nurse still living with parents. Cute face (but her pics were straight hair and she came with really curly hair which i didn't like as much). Tits and @ss for days. Very good in bed.
Only bad thing: She sends me a snapchat last night of a pic of an empty picture frame with a heart around the edge of it... And says "Want your picture to fill this? lol"
Whoa....
"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
Bokanovsky
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I know one girl who is a lesbian. By that logic, we shouldn't bother with girls, period.Syrio said:
You misread what I wrote. I said I know ONE girl who uses it, as in out of all the girls I know (which is a lot) only one uses it. And she uses it for ego boosting purposes. Plus that's not the only reason I wouldn't use it but I decided not to get into a whole thing about it.Bokanovsky said:
Dont be discouraged. Ugly girls are sometimes harder to hook up with than hot ones. Maybe because they are less comfortable with their sexuality/ physical appearance.4north1side2 said:
Tinder has a very low ratio of success. I've had more success with "howAboutwe" its like tinder but you send date ideas to girls.