"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Is this type of guy considered a Don Juan?

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Ok, so I joined this night-class (basically part-time course) and met this guy who's super-confident about himself. He doesn't mind calling himself gay in front of the girls and saying all kinds of stuff that an average man won't dare to say.

He talks and jokes about sex with the girls openly during the class, and while I personally find his jokes to be lame and not the least bit funny, the girls always laugh loud and hard with him. He also talks about those girl-stuff /chick-flick stuff with the chicks, like what kinda man they prefer and all that.
(again, I hate engaging in girl-talk with girls)

Actually, I've seen this type of guy many times through my life before : u know, the guy who hangs around with groups of girls and laughing together with them, yet strangely, whenever the girls want to find a boyfriend, it's never this type of guy (although he's really confident and always makes the girls laugh and girls wanna be with him).

Is this type of guy considered the legendary "ladies' man" / DJ? Not sure if you guys have seen this type before. If he's considered a DJ, I'm gonna really hang around him (and no, he's not a gay or effeminate man).

Thanks!
Yon
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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PapiChulo

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The guy is a douche! And stupid women will laugh at almost anything, apparently you too will laugh.
 

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When I first got rolling with this stuff 6 or 8 years ago, I was kinda like this guy. I was always surrounded by 5 or 6 girls. And i would easily meet more and rotate them into the group. This is when i didnt mind hanging out with girls and it was kind of an ego boost to be with a bunch of chicks. Now i hate hanging around b!tches. I just fvck em a couple times and move on. Im getting laid the same amount either way
 

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So I guess this kinda guy isn't a DJ. I always thought that any guy who's confident enough to talk about even sex stuff with girls and make them laugh = DJ.

LOL, in fact, whenever I saw this guy, I even wondered if he could be the next Mystery or Pook. :)
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Mistic

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Any guy that fvcks whatever chick he wants abd has confidence is a DJ simple as that
 

Mistic

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Any guy that fvcks whatever chick he wants abd has confidence is a DJ simple as that
 
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