"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Is this type of guy considered a Don Juan?

Yon4

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Ok, so I joined this night-class (basically part-time course) and met this guy who's super-confident about himself. He doesn't mind calling himself gay in front of the girls and saying all kinds of stuff that an average man won't dare to say.

He talks and jokes about sex with the girls openly during the class, and while I personally find his jokes to be lame and not the least bit funny, the girls always laugh loud and hard with him. He also talks about those girl-stuff /chick-flick stuff with the chicks, like what kinda man they prefer and all that.
(again, I hate engaging in girl-talk with girls)

Actually, I've seen this type of guy many times through my life before : u know, the guy who hangs around with groups of girls and laughing together with them, yet strangely, whenever the girls want to find a boyfriend, it's never this type of guy (although he's really confident and always makes the girls laugh and girls wanna be with him).

Is this type of guy considered the legendary "ladies' man" / DJ? Not sure if you guys have seen this type before. If he's considered a DJ, I'm gonna really hang around him (and no, he's not a gay or effeminate man).

Thanks!
Yon
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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PapiChulo

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The guy is a douche! And stupid women will laugh at almost anything, apparently you too will laugh.
 

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When I first got rolling with this stuff 6 or 8 years ago, I was kinda like this guy. I was always surrounded by 5 or 6 girls. And i would easily meet more and rotate them into the group. This is when i didnt mind hanging out with girls and it was kind of an ego boost to be with a bunch of chicks. Now i hate hanging around b!tches. I just fvck em a couple times and move on. Im getting laid the same amount either way
 

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So I guess this kinda guy isn't a DJ. I always thought that any guy who's confident enough to talk about even sex stuff with girls and make them laugh = DJ.

LOL, in fact, whenever I saw this guy, I even wondered if he could be the next Mystery or Pook. :)
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Mistic

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Any guy that fvcks whatever chick he wants abd has confidence is a DJ simple as that
 

Mistic

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Any guy that fvcks whatever chick he wants abd has confidence is a DJ simple as that
 
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