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I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Is this type of guy considered a Don Juan?

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Ok, so I joined this night-class (basically part-time course) and met this guy who's super-confident about himself. He doesn't mind calling himself gay in front of the girls and saying all kinds of stuff that an average man won't dare to say.

He talks and jokes about sex with the girls openly during the class, and while I personally find his jokes to be lame and not the least bit funny, the girls always laugh loud and hard with him. He also talks about those girl-stuff /chick-flick stuff with the chicks, like what kinda man they prefer and all that.
(again, I hate engaging in girl-talk with girls)

Actually, I've seen this type of guy many times through my life before : u know, the guy who hangs around with groups of girls and laughing together with them, yet strangely, whenever the girls want to find a boyfriend, it's never this type of guy (although he's really confident and always makes the girls laugh and girls wanna be with him).

Is this type of guy considered the legendary "ladies' man" / DJ? Not sure if you guys have seen this type before. If he's considered a DJ, I'm gonna really hang around him (and no, he's not a gay or effeminate man).

Thanks!
Yon
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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The guy is a douche! And stupid women will laugh at almost anything, apparently you too will laugh.
 
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When I first got rolling with this stuff 6 or 8 years ago, I was kinda like this guy. I was always surrounded by 5 or 6 girls. And i would easily meet more and rotate them into the group. This is when i didnt mind hanging out with girls and it was kind of an ego boost to be with a bunch of chicks. Now i hate hanging around b!tches. I just fvck em a couple times and move on. Im getting laid the same amount either way
 
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So I guess this kinda guy isn't a DJ. I always thought that any guy who's confident enough to talk about even sex stuff with girls and make them laugh = DJ.

LOL, in fact, whenever I saw this guy, I even wondered if he could be the next Mystery or Pook. :)
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Any guy that fvcks whatever chick he wants abd has confidence is a DJ simple as that
 
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Any guy that fvcks whatever chick he wants abd has confidence is a DJ simple as that
 
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