"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
is this true? most girls in class with their cell phones visible have a bf...
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"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.
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the only way to find out is to ask. there is no rule out there that applies to every woman.cguy2004 said:
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Now this is a very specific observation, but I've made it many times in many places, and it might just be me, but whenever I see a girl who always has her phone on hand, many times it's because she doesn't have enough going on in her life.
Personally, I find that the more fun I'm having, the less I check phone, email. Women who are on their phone all the time are, according to my observations, the kind who think that "some thing about whatever that my friend has to tell me" is the most important thing that's happened to her all day. And then they wanna talk to me about it. And I want to leave. And I do.
In short, they tend to be the female equivalent of the AFC.
I already got rid of Facebook, and that's been going great. No need for every girl out there to be able to look up your friends and find photos of you wearing women's underwear in a Rocky Horror production. That's neither here nor there.
God damn, work is driving me crazy lately...
"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.
Iceberg
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Save yourself trouble by developing the assumption that any girl with an active interest in her cell phone has a boyfriend?cguy2004 said:
I don't know if I had too much coffee today or what, but that has to be one of the most ridiculous things I've heard in a long time.
Talk to women and you'll find out their interest in you. A girl might have a boyfriend and wanna date you anyway. You can't just assume that a girl checking her cellphone is doing so because she has a man. Christ. That's not even logical. Stop trying to play it safe and just talk to people.
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"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
What the hell man, why should it matter? For all you know she can be expecting a message from her grandpa that came over to visit and is gonna meet her after class.cguy2004 said:
The point is: even if she has a boyfriend what´s the problem of talking with her, getting to know her? Is the universe gonna collapse? The sun turn into a supernova?
You are just preemptively looking for excuses not to act, to not step out of the comfort zone.
Like someone very wise once said, "scared little boys dont get to kiss pretty girls".
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“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”
Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.
Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers. Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.
I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.