"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
is this true? most girls in class with their cell phones visible have a bf...
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"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
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the only way to find out is to ask. there is no rule out there that applies to every woman.cguy2004 said:
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Now this is a very specific observation, but I've made it many times in many places, and it might just be me, but whenever I see a girl who always has her phone on hand, many times it's because she doesn't have enough going on in her life.
Personally, I find that the more fun I'm having, the less I check phone, email. Women who are on their phone all the time are, according to my observations, the kind who think that "some thing about whatever that my friend has to tell me" is the most important thing that's happened to her all day. And then they wanna talk to me about it. And I want to leave. And I do.
In short, they tend to be the female equivalent of the AFC.
I already got rid of Facebook, and that's been going great. No need for every girl out there to be able to look up your friends and find photos of you wearing women's underwear in a Rocky Horror production. That's neither here nor there.
God damn, work is driving me crazy lately...
"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
Iceberg
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Save yourself trouble by developing the assumption that any girl with an active interest in her cell phone has a boyfriend?cguy2004 said:
I don't know if I had too much coffee today or what, but that has to be one of the most ridiculous things I've heard in a long time.
Talk to women and you'll find out their interest in you. A girl might have a boyfriend and wanna date you anyway. You can't just assume that a girl checking her cellphone is doing so because she has a man. Christ. That's not even logical. Stop trying to play it safe and just talk to people.
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"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
What the hell man, why should it matter? For all you know she can be expecting a message from her grandpa that came over to visit and is gonna meet her after class.cguy2004 said:
The point is: even if she has a boyfriend what´s the problem of talking with her, getting to know her? Is the universe gonna collapse? The sun turn into a supernova?
You are just preemptively looking for excuses not to act, to not step out of the comfort zone.
Like someone very wise once said, "scared little boys dont get to kiss pretty girls".
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"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.