"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

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Is this too manipulative

nateistoraw

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Hi, I have a 1st date coming up soon.

I have really thought this out.

The date will involve some walking.

On the date, I will "encounter" a homeless person and give them food that was stored in a "doggie-bag". After they gladly accept, or at least I hope:

"I asked for a sandwich bi$%h" -Scary Movie

After that I will ask them if they were a veteran, if they say yes, I will give them like a dollar or 2. If not, I will continue to the next step.

I will have some little conversation with them, and actually get their name. I will tell them good luck, and I have confidence in them.


Now is my plans for the upcoming date too manipulative?
 

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You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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Warrior74

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WTF?

Stop trying to create some sort of hollywood moment and just be your damn self. Jesus christ this is lame.
 
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We in Britain have a phrase and the phrase goes by the name of "Goon".

You, sir are a total goon.

WTF is this? Why are you carrying bags around with you which are used to pick up dog excrement?
 

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yeah dude, thats pretty freaky. i'd say spend more time talking to your date then some homeless man who doesnt want your left overs, only £ to get him high as a kite
 

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lol, a doggie bag is a bag of the leftovers of dinner!

lol. If anyone of you was watching Law & Order last Friday, a guy did this to a "Vet" who became homeless.

I actually do want to help homeless people, as long as they help me back.

No one in life is intentionally good,lol
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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I think you need to lose your V-Plates son and you won't lose them playing "help the homeless" on a date. :crackup:
 

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if you want to help the homeless do it when you're not on a date.
plus what if you actually want to finish your dinner on this date?you can't.... cause then you can't take the homeless dude anything.

i'd say stop watching corny films/tv
 

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lol, Law & Order is not a corny film or TV show.

The dude did not help the homeless vet to game, but because he knew what the vets experienced.

lol. I just manipulate circumstances.

lol, also, I planned on not completing my dinner anyway,lol.
 

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Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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lmao it's a bit TOO manipulative

wouldn't you feel lame if you had to do some dumb routine everytime to get a girl to like you?

just be yourself, you don't need to manipulate a girl to get her to like you do you?
 

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Warrior74 said:
WTF?

Stop trying to create some sort of hollywood moment and just be your damn self. ...this is lame.

I 100% agree with Warrior74.
This is lame,(i;e. so also "stupid")




Warrior74 nailed it when he said you were trying to create some "Hollywood" moment. Here you are talking about "Law and Order" and "Scary Movie".



Obviously you spend huge amounts of time watching tv and movies and you're trying to make the date go perfect the way tv shows and movies go.



You're trying to "script" the date like a tv show.



And what's the point of doing all this anyway? You think showing her you're a good person will make her desire you or something? If that's the case,you need to go back to school,dude.

Read the DJ Bible.



Being "good" has ZERO to do with sexual attraction.
 
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i say you do it lol and while your at it get a friend to hide on a roof and film it then another friend to try and rob you and you can show how strong you are


but make sure we see the vid
 

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She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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I think the idea is interesting, cant wait for the results lol:rockon:
 

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Seriously, not a good move to make.

Ever been on a date with someone that blows there own trumpet, similarsituation, she will just think you are showing off, and want her to think how good you. And asking the guy if heis a veteran lol.... hilarious
 

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Okay, I wish i could make a poll for this.

I personally think it was a good idea, however, you all are the DJs.

I think I should have a more natural date, then one thats planned from a to b.
 

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londonzen said:
i say you do it lol and while your at it get a friend to hide on a roof and film it then another friend to try and rob you and you can show how strong you are


but make sure we see the vid
I agree. Do it an post the video up.
 

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Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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