"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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Is this too manipulative

nateistoraw

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Hi, I have a 1st date coming up soon.

I have really thought this out.

The date will involve some walking.

On the date, I will "encounter" a homeless person and give them food that was stored in a "doggie-bag". After they gladly accept, or at least I hope:

"I asked for a sandwich bi$%h" -Scary Movie

After that I will ask them if they were a veteran, if they say yes, I will give them like a dollar or 2. If not, I will continue to the next step.

I will have some little conversation with them, and actually get their name. I will tell them good luck, and I have confidence in them.


Now is my plans for the upcoming date too manipulative?
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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WTF?

Stop trying to create some sort of hollywood moment and just be your damn self. Jesus christ this is lame.
 
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We in Britain have a phrase and the phrase goes by the name of "Goon".

You, sir are a total goon.

WTF is this? Why are you carrying bags around with you which are used to pick up dog excrement?
 

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yeah dude, thats pretty freaky. i'd say spend more time talking to your date then some homeless man who doesnt want your left overs, only £ to get him high as a kite
 

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lol, a doggie bag is a bag of the leftovers of dinner!

lol. If anyone of you was watching Law & Order last Friday, a guy did this to a "Vet" who became homeless.

I actually do want to help homeless people, as long as they help me back.

No one in life is intentionally good,lol
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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I think you need to lose your V-Plates son and you won't lose them playing "help the homeless" on a date. :crackup:
 

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if you want to help the homeless do it when you're not on a date.
plus what if you actually want to finish your dinner on this date?you can't.... cause then you can't take the homeless dude anything.

i'd say stop watching corny films/tv
 

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lol, Law & Order is not a corny film or TV show.

The dude did not help the homeless vet to game, but because he knew what the vets experienced.

lol. I just manipulate circumstances.

lol, also, I planned on not completing my dinner anyway,lol.
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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lmao it's a bit TOO manipulative

wouldn't you feel lame if you had to do some dumb routine everytime to get a girl to like you?

just be yourself, you don't need to manipulate a girl to get her to like you do you?
 

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Warrior74 said:
WTF?

Stop trying to create some sort of hollywood moment and just be your damn self. ...this is lame.

I 100% agree with Warrior74.
This is lame,(i;e. so also "stupid")




Warrior74 nailed it when he said you were trying to create some "Hollywood" moment. Here you are talking about "Law and Order" and "Scary Movie".



Obviously you spend huge amounts of time watching tv and movies and you're trying to make the date go perfect the way tv shows and movies go.



You're trying to "script" the date like a tv show.



And what's the point of doing all this anyway? You think showing her you're a good person will make her desire you or something? If that's the case,you need to go back to school,dude.

Read the DJ Bible.



Being "good" has ZERO to do with sexual attraction.
 
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i say you do it lol and while your at it get a friend to hide on a roof and film it then another friend to try and rob you and you can show how strong you are


but make sure we see the vid
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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I think the idea is interesting, cant wait for the results lol:rockon:
 

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Seriously, not a good move to make.

Ever been on a date with someone that blows there own trumpet, similarsituation, she will just think you are showing off, and want her to think how good you. And asking the guy if heis a veteran lol.... hilarious
 

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Okay, I wish i could make a poll for this.

I personally think it was a good idea, however, you all are the DJs.

I think I should have a more natural date, then one thats planned from a to b.
 

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londonzen said:
i say you do it lol and while your at it get a friend to hide on a roof and film it then another friend to try and rob you and you can show how strong you are


but make sure we see the vid
I agree. Do it an post the video up.
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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