MatureDJ
Master Don Juan
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When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
"Sorry, you do not meet either of these members' requirements for height, income, career field, desire for immediate commitment, body type, travel experience..."In2theGame said:Put me in a Cell with these two lol yeeaaa...
:crackup: :crackup: :crackup:dasein said:"Sorry, you do not meet either of these members' requirements for height, income, career field, desire for immediate commitment, body type, travel experience..."
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the delicious irony just about sums up men's dating experiences. Love it.dasein said:"Sorry, you do not meet either of these members' requirements for height, income, career field, desire for immediate commitment, body type, travel experience..."
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
LoLdasein said:"Sorry, you do not meet either of these members' requirements for height, income, career field, desire for immediate commitment, body type, travel experience..."
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Probably because this website selects for attractiveness, whereas those other ones just take everyone.MtnMan said:You know, these women are on average better than what I see on okcupid or match.com:kick:
No doubt. Just in case anyone who is young or less experienced here was -ever- thinking about giving -any- contact information or -any- other personal information to -anyone- in prison, DON'T.Stagger Lee said:Most likely these women were rolling with criminal dudes.
Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.
Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers. Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.
I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.