MatureDJ
Master Don Juan
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You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
"Sorry, you do not meet either of these members' requirements for height, income, career field, desire for immediate commitment, body type, travel experience..."In2theGame said:Put me in a Cell with these two lol yeeaaa...
:crackup: :crackup: :crackup:dasein said:"Sorry, you do not meet either of these members' requirements for height, income, career field, desire for immediate commitment, body type, travel experience..."
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the delicious irony just about sums up men's dating experiences. Love it.dasein said:"Sorry, you do not meet either of these members' requirements for height, income, career field, desire for immediate commitment, body type, travel experience..."
You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.
She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.
Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.
Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.
LoLdasein said:"Sorry, you do not meet either of these members' requirements for height, income, career field, desire for immediate commitment, body type, travel experience..."
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Probably because this website selects for attractiveness, whereas those other ones just take everyone.MtnMan said:You know, these women are on average better than what I see on okcupid or match.com:kick:
No doubt. Just in case anyone who is young or less experienced here was -ever- thinking about giving -any- contact information or -any- other personal information to -anyone- in prison, DON'T.Stagger Lee said:Most likely these women were rolling with criminal dudes.
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.