"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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Is this situation a lost cause?

and1play5

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I was just talking to a girl im very much interested in, and sunday I told her how I felt about her even though she has a bf. Just now our convo turned into a hypothetical questionnaire and I basically asked her how she would have felt about what I said to her if she did not have a bf and she told me she can only see me as a friend?; and to make things worse she asked if I would feel some type of way if she told me she had feeling for one of my friends? Is this situation shot?
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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The Bat

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You've been friend-zoned. Move on.
 

TheEdgeOf

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You... You told her how you feel?
As in;
"Listen, Steven ( <--- Insert Girl's Name There), I really like you a lot. If you didn't have a boyfriend, do you think there's a chance that we could ever be together. And wait, before you answer, just let me go get a band-aid for this gaping hole I just shot through my foot."
 

Telos

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Dude. This situation is beyond shot. The only way you are EVER going to get with this chick is if you encourage her to f*ck your friend, somehow make her believe that you were lying or experiencing temporary insanity when you "told her your feelings", slam a new broad and post pictures of your conquest all over myspace or some other site so she can see, and then somehow end up with her at a party or gathering where you should proceed to tease the hell out of her and raise every little pang of inadequacy. While your at it, get a tattoo.
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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