“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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Is this propaganda?

RogueWarrior

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I keep seeing/hearing about this book "He's just not that into you" and how it's "liberating" women. What are DJ's opinions of this? Is this propaganda that will undermine the DJ tactics of being aloof?
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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All I know is that the guy who co-wrote it, Greg Behrendt, is one funny motherf*cker.
 

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It's for ugly biatches who can't keep a man.
 

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I haven't read it but from what I hear the overall concept is:

If a guy isn't calling you, is cancelling plans, is acting disinterested, is sleeping with other women... it doesn't mean that he's "complicated" or "very busy with work" or "afraid of commitment" or "intimidated by you".

It just means that he just isn't that into you. so why are you wasting your time stressing over it?

I guess it makes sense and is empowering to women because they stop wasting their time in dead-end relationships (that really aren't "relationships" at all, but they were otherwise too blind to see that). Basically it keeps women from embarrassing themselves by continuing to pursue a man who isn't interested and it keeps women from having nervous breakdowns when they finally realize that a guy they're dating doesn't want anything to do with them.

But mostly I think it's a little overly simplistic.

I don't see it as much of a threat to DJs because I think it doesn't really address men who are just acting "aloof" but rather men who really AREN'T that into the woman. (Truth is, if you AREN'T into her, then you wouldn't care anyway if she stop bothering you).
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Originally posted by RogueWarrior
I keep seeing/hearing about this book "He's just not that into you" and how it's "liberating" women. What are DJ's opinions of this? Is this propaganda that will undermine the DJ tactics of being aloof?
Are we in cold-war-era USSR or something? :rolleyes:
 
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