"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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Is this normal for tinder?

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OLD is dieing out as social media like instagram is where the true meat and potatoes of smashing comes from nowadays because it shows your clout and social proof and is an instant connection to every hottie on the planet lets be real here. and in my opinion even though its a facade its just as much of one as an OLD profile. infact i think the IG page will be more authentic and you can actually connect your worlds as far as business dating hobbies and friends goes.

POF, Tinder, bumble, etc. is just a way for companys to make $ off desperate guys. its sad but its true. Even if you are a top aesthetic chad you still deal with the BS these chicks throw and your still competing with all the other chads too which inflates these females egos up even further. literally every girl is living like the bachelorette online. its just supply an demand. wars have been waged over puzzy and we are living in the modern spiritual technocratic war of the genders and sexes and blending of everything. new world order **** poppin off.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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[QUOTE="Julian, post: 2652824, member: 14647"
OLD is dieing out as social media like instagram is where the true meat and potatoes of smashing comes }

If true, I’m gonna be screwed. I work a lot so my IG is pretty boring. No exciting pics of me mountain climbing...I do OK on Tinder as it’s just a few pics of me.
 

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[QUOTE="Julian, post: 2652824, member: 14647"
OLD is dieing out as social media like instagram is where the true meat and potatoes of smashing comes }

If true, I’m gonna be screwed. I work a lot so my IG is pretty boring. No exciting pics of me mountain climbing...I do OK on Tinder as it’s just a few pics of me.
I get messaging back n' forth, but it just all of a sudden, she stops responding (doesn't matter the girl) and I'm like, "gee, it must be something I wrote that turned her off.." when all it probably was was, "she's talking to a slew of other guys now, I'm forgotten."
 

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App is buggy as hell. It keeps showing the same profiles even though Ive swiped on them multiple times.
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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touma.akagi

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Don't waste your time with Tinder. Too many bots, catfishes, skanks covered in tats, fatties, single moms, instagram/snapchat farmers. I left swiped 90% of the time when I was on there.
Unfortunately, many apps do succumb to the same plague. It's not just strictly OLD sites, even; scambots and catfish have overrun Facebook and Instagram. They killed Kik. Riddled it like a gatling gun.

Try Bumble. It's got real people on it, for now. Take advantage of it now before it's infected later.
 
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