"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Is this man being "creepy"?

MatureDJ

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I was looking at this, and it got me interested:

http://www.vulture.com/2018/07/video-of-andy-****-groping-ivanka-trump-resurfaces.html

(NOTE: The **** is the nickname typically bestowed upon men named "Richard".)

First off, I can understand the temptation; the First Daughter is astronomically sexy. ;)

But a deeper thought came to my mind (pun not intended at first): A small, anti-Chad trying to do this type of flirty, kino actions that the typical woman (i.e., a "Stacy") lets Chad get away with - that most women would consider, because this man is an anti-Chad, creepy.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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MatureDJ said:
I was looking at this, and it got me interested:

http://www.vulture.com/2018/07/video-of-andy-****-groping-ivanka-trump-resurfaces.html

(NOTE: The **** is the nickname typically bestowed upon men named "Richard".)

First off, I can understand the temptation; the First Daughter is astronomically sexy. ;)

But a deeper thought came to my mind (pun not intended at first): A small, anti-Chad trying to do this type of flirty, kino actions that the typical woman (i.e., a "Stacy") lets Chad get away with - that most women would consider, because this man is an anti-Chad, creepy.
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yes and no. would a fabio type guy get away with putting his hands on her? maybe, maybe not, depends on the setting in some cases. you're on a tv stage, you start groping her, probably doesn't matter who you are, you're going to get in hot water. however, times, they are a changin, the metoo crap seems to have really poisoned the well on kino. I'm not sure who would get away with being handsy for long these days. you might get a lighter sentence if you were a good looking guy but you're still going to get in trouble.
 
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The creepiness level is directly related to how much they want to fvck you.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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MatureDJ said:
Actually, it's the *inverse*.
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Well yeah...guys who they want to fvck can literally get away with doing or saying anything.
 
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