"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Is this man being "creepy"?

MatureDJ

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I was looking at this, and it got me interested:

http://www.vulture.com/2018/07/video-of-andy-****-groping-ivanka-trump-resurfaces.html

(NOTE: The **** is the nickname typically bestowed upon men named "Richard".)

First off, I can understand the temptation; the First Daughter is astronomically sexy. ;)

But a deeper thought came to my mind (pun not intended at first): A small, anti-Chad trying to do this type of flirty, kino actions that the typical woman (i.e., a "Stacy") lets Chad get away with - that most women would consider, because this man is an anti-Chad, creepy.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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highSpeed

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I was looking at this, and it got me interested:

http://www.vulture.com/2018/07/video-of-andy-****-groping-ivanka-trump-resurfaces.html

(NOTE: The **** is the nickname typically bestowed upon men named "Richard".)

First off, I can understand the temptation; the First Daughter is astronomically sexy. ;)

But a deeper thought came to my mind (pun not intended at first): A small, anti-Chad trying to do this type of flirty, kino actions that the typical woman (i.e., a "Stacy") lets Chad get away with - that most women would consider, because this man is an anti-Chad, creepy.
yes and no. would a fabio type guy get away with putting his hands on her? maybe, maybe not, depends on the setting in some cases. you're on a tv stage, you start groping her, probably doesn't matter who you are, you're going to get in hot water. however, times, they are a changin, the metoo crap seems to have really poisoned the well on kino. I'm not sure who would get away with being handsy for long these days. you might get a lighter sentence if you were a good looking guy but you're still going to get in trouble.
 

marmel75

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The creepiness level is directly related to how much they want to fvck you.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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marmel75

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Actually, it's the *inverse*.
Well yeah...guys who they want to fvck can literally get away with doing or saying anything.
 
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