"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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Is this man being "creepy"?

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I was looking at this, and it got me interested:

http://www.vulture.com/2018/07/video-of-andy-****-groping-ivanka-trump-resurfaces.html

(NOTE: The **** is the nickname typically bestowed upon men named "Richard".)

First off, I can understand the temptation; the First Daughter is astronomically sexy. ;)

But a deeper thought came to my mind (pun not intended at first): A small, anti-Chad trying to do this type of flirty, kino actions that the typical woman (i.e., a "Stacy") lets Chad get away with - that most women would consider, because this man is an anti-Chad, creepy.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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MatureDJ said:
I was looking at this, and it got me interested:

http://www.vulture.com/2018/07/video-of-andy-****-groping-ivanka-trump-resurfaces.html

(NOTE: The **** is the nickname typically bestowed upon men named "Richard".)

First off, I can understand the temptation; the First Daughter is astronomically sexy. ;)

But a deeper thought came to my mind (pun not intended at first): A small, anti-Chad trying to do this type of flirty, kino actions that the typical woman (i.e., a "Stacy") lets Chad get away with - that most women would consider, because this man is an anti-Chad, creepy.
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yes and no. would a fabio type guy get away with putting his hands on her? maybe, maybe not, depends on the setting in some cases. you're on a tv stage, you start groping her, probably doesn't matter who you are, you're going to get in hot water. however, times, they are a changin, the metoo crap seems to have really poisoned the well on kino. I'm not sure who would get away with being handsy for long these days. you might get a lighter sentence if you were a good looking guy but you're still going to get in trouble.
 
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The creepiness level is directly related to how much they want to fvck you.
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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MatureDJ said:
Actually, it's the *inverse*.
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Well yeah...guys who they want to fvck can literally get away with doing or saying anything.
 
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