"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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Is this man being "creepy"?

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I was looking at this, and it got me interested:

http://www.vulture.com/2018/07/video-of-andy-****-groping-ivanka-trump-resurfaces.html

(NOTE: The **** is the nickname typically bestowed upon men named "Richard".)

First off, I can understand the temptation; the First Daughter is astronomically sexy. ;)

But a deeper thought came to my mind (pun not intended at first): A small, anti-Chad trying to do this type of flirty, kino actions that the typical woman (i.e., a "Stacy") lets Chad get away with - that most women would consider, because this man is an anti-Chad, creepy.
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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MatureDJ said:
I was looking at this, and it got me interested:

http://www.vulture.com/2018/07/video-of-andy-****-groping-ivanka-trump-resurfaces.html

(NOTE: The **** is the nickname typically bestowed upon men named "Richard".)

First off, I can understand the temptation; the First Daughter is astronomically sexy. ;)

But a deeper thought came to my mind (pun not intended at first): A small, anti-Chad trying to do this type of flirty, kino actions that the typical woman (i.e., a "Stacy") lets Chad get away with - that most women would consider, because this man is an anti-Chad, creepy.
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yes and no. would a fabio type guy get away with putting his hands on her? maybe, maybe not, depends on the setting in some cases. you're on a tv stage, you start groping her, probably doesn't matter who you are, you're going to get in hot water. however, times, they are a changin, the metoo crap seems to have really poisoned the well on kino. I'm not sure who would get away with being handsy for long these days. you might get a lighter sentence if you were a good looking guy but you're still going to get in trouble.
 
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The creepiness level is directly related to how much they want to fvck you.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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MatureDJ said:
Actually, it's the *inverse*.
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Well yeah...guys who they want to fvck can literally get away with doing or saying anything.
 
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