"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Is this girl too comfortable around me?

LittleBigOne

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Several weeks ago posted about a co worker who is, to my opinion, flirting a with me. This is not happening all the time but at least a few times a week.

The flirting is more like teasing. We stand eachother in the way in front of the door so she or me can't pass and lately she stole a can of cola out of my hand and when i asked 'how are you gonne make that up with me' she gave me a pretending kiss on the cheek (there were teenage pupils around us so maybe she holded back) and gave the can back.

Today i took her seat and she said no problem and got sitting on my lap for a minute (while my colleagues were sitting around us looking a bit surprised).

All fine you might think but here the problem is: I like the attention and the fun but to me she doesn't look nervous or something like that. I do have the idea she is keeping me in her eye often (mostly VERY quick) but i wonder if she is not too comfortable with me and see me just a nice colleague where you can joke around with. Her character is not shy, is sportive, is having good contact with other people and i haven't seen her as physical with others then with me.

We are both in a relationship and as i write this i have something like i don't need her but when we would be both single i would do serious steps forward to her, now i keep it light.
So, how most woman behave when they are attracted to man? Flirtious, nervous, both???? Looking forward to your opinion!
 

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Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

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SamTheHobit

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The two comment above me are gold.
 
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