"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Is this girl too comfortable around me?

LittleBigOne

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Several weeks ago posted about a co worker who is, to my opinion, flirting a with me. This is not happening all the time but at least a few times a week.

The flirting is more like teasing. We stand eachother in the way in front of the door so she or me can't pass and lately she stole a can of cola out of my hand and when i asked 'how are you gonne make that up with me' she gave me a pretending kiss on the cheek (there were teenage pupils around us so maybe she holded back) and gave the can back.

Today i took her seat and she said no problem and got sitting on my lap for a minute (while my colleagues were sitting around us looking a bit surprised).

All fine you might think but here the problem is: I like the attention and the fun but to me she doesn't look nervous or something like that. I do have the idea she is keeping me in her eye often (mostly VERY quick) but i wonder if she is not too comfortable with me and see me just a nice colleague where you can joke around with. Her character is not shy, is sportive, is having good contact with other people and i haven't seen her as physical with others then with me.

We are both in a relationship and as i write this i have something like i don't need her but when we would be both single i would do serious steps forward to her, now i keep it light.
So, how most woman behave when they are attracted to man? Flirtious, nervous, both???? Looking forward to your opinion!
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

Read more...

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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SamTheHobit

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The two comment above me are gold.
 
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