Rightmind
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"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
Is this girl stringing me along?
- Thread starter EternalBachelor
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"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
mrgoodstuff
Master Don Juan
If she's not fvcking you then why are you worried about her?
EternalBachelor
Don Juan
My city is in lock down so nothing I can do. It seems silly to text her when she has no real interest in engaging with me and there is no possibility at the moment of meeting up. And maybe disappearing for a few months might do some good. Will then text her in the summer suggesting a drink and see what happens. Meanwhile I will see if I can line up some other dates for the summer.
mrgoodstuff
Master Don Juan
Why bother you have your answer. In this corona most are next to their men. Sides are not in the pucture.
bat soup
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Here's the explanation - women follow their feelings. At some point she was feeling horny and that's why she was touching/kissing you, but by the end of the night she didn't feel horny enough to go home with you and so she didn't. Women are 100% selfish and about what they want. As for the rest - the excuses, saying she's "busy" and the bull**** about being ill. That all shows low interest. Maybe she thought she'd give you a chance when another option fell through, but in the end she decided she didn't like you enough to bang you.
"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.