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thanks for all the replies. I am kicking myself. pretty much the day after our date London started talking about shutting cafes and restaurants and bars.

I invited her over to watch a movie <—pull could be better by spiking her emotion/imagination refer to previous comm with her

but she said she was staying at home and avoiding contact with people. I said "OK well maybe let's catch up in the summer when this is all over". <—- good push


She replied "if we survive" followed by "I'd love that" after quoting my message and then "Look after yourself" <—— dead air would increases tension

to which I replied "You too".<—- followed, completed comm cycle decreased tension

the next day she texted me asking how i was doing <—- girl speak ‘did you get laid with someone else’? No, cool. I’m still on top

and when i said fine replied she was feeling sad because travel restrictions meant she couldn't see her parents and she was all alone with no support. <—- bait, is he thirsty? Will he invite me again?

I replied "it must be hard for you. but stay positive i am sure everything will go back to normal soon". <—- free empathy almost supplication, decreased tension, good no new offer good push

She ignored this. <—- she quit you before you quit her

but then the next day sent me some silly internet meme making fun of coronavirus. <—- breadcrumbing

this texting pattern is quite typical throughout the time i have known her. i guess it is her way of keeping me as an option without having to invest by engaging in actual conversation. <—- wants banter and increasing sexual tension not a feel good text buddy relationship
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Maybe you should ask her if she is interested, I don`t see the reason to wait and torture yourself
 

EyeOnThePrize

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Maybe you should ask her if she is interested, I don`t see the reason to wait and torture yourself
There are much more graceful ways to get the answer to that question. Women can be indecisive and make their mind up in the moment depending on how they're feeling, it's just the way it is. A direct ask comes off as needy and is reserved for the socially inept.

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You need to work on being sexually aggressive when the moment calls for it. Don't fear rejection, if a woman can't keep up that's on her. Tease her and turn her on until she can keep up. If she tries to kill the mood let her and walk. If you feel intimidated by this woman then like @Amante Silvestre said, you're not ready. Go work on yourself until you feel like a killer. Nothing a woman does should intimidate you, it should all feel like child's play in comparison to the way you challenge yourself.
 

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There are much more graceful ways to get the answer to that question. Women can be indecisive and make their mind up in the moment depending on how they're feeling, it's just the way it is. A direct ask comes off as needy and is reserved for the socially inept.

Maybe you are right, but I would ask directly, at least I could see the reaction and make up my mind
 

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My city is in lock down so nothing I can do. It seems silly to text her when she has no real interest in engaging with me and there is no possibility at the moment of meeting up. And maybe disappearing for a few months might do some good. Will then text her in the summer suggesting a drink and see what happens. Meanwhile I will see if I can line up some other dates for the summer.
 

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My city is in lock down so nothing I can do. It seems silly to text her when she has no real interest in engaging with me and there is no possibility at the moment of meeting up. And maybe disappearing for a few months might do some good. Will then text her in the summer suggesting a drink and see what happens. Meanwhile I will see if I can line up some other dates for the summer.
Why bother you have your answer. In this corona most are next to their men. Sides are not in the pucture.
 

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Here's the explanation - women follow their feelings. At some point she was feeling horny and that's why she was touching/kissing you, but by the end of the night she didn't feel horny enough to go home with you and so she didn't. Women are 100% selfish and about what they want. As for the rest - the excuses, saying she's "busy" and the bull**** about being ill. That all shows low interest. Maybe she thought she'd give you a chance when another option fell through, but in the end she decided she didn't like you enough to bang you.
 
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