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Comments within quoted textthanks for all the replies. I am kicking myself. pretty much the day after our date London started talking about shutting cafes and restaurants and bars.
I invited her over to watch a movie <—pull could be better by spiking her emotion/imagination refer to previous comm with her
but she said she was staying at home and avoiding contact with people. I said "OK well maybe let's catch up in the summer when this is all over". <—- good push
She replied "if we survive" followed by "I'd love that" after quoting my message and then "Look after yourself" <—— dead air would increases tension
to which I replied "You too".<—- followed, completed comm cycle decreased tension
the next day she texted me asking how i was doing <—- girl speak ‘did you get laid with someone else’? No, cool. I’m still on top
and when i said fine replied she was feeling sad because travel restrictions meant she couldn't see her parents and she was all alone with no support. <—- bait, is he thirsty? Will he invite me again?
I replied "it must be hard for you. but stay positive i am sure everything will go back to normal soon". <—- free empathy almost supplication, decreased tension, good no new offer good push
She ignored this. <—- she quit you before you quit her
but then the next day sent me some silly internet meme making fun of coronavirus. <—- breadcrumbing
this texting pattern is quite typical throughout the time i have known her. i guess it is her way of keeping me as an option without having to invest by engaging in actual conversation. <—- wants banter and increasing sexual tension not a feel good text buddy relationship
There are much more graceful ways to get the answer to that question. Women can be indecisive and make their mind up in the moment depending on how they're feeling, it's just the way it is. A direct ask comes off as needy and is reserved for the socially inept.Maybe you should ask her if she is interested, I don`t see the reason to wait and torture yourself
There are much more graceful ways to get the answer to that question. Women can be indecisive and make their mind up in the moment depending on how they're feeling, it's just the way it is. A direct ask comes off as needy and is reserved for the socially inept.
Maybe you are right, but I would ask directly, at least I could see the reaction and make up my mind
Why bother you have your answer. In this corona most are next to their men. Sides are not in the pucture.My city is in lock down so nothing I can do. It seems silly to text her when she has no real interest in engaging with me and there is no possibility at the moment of meeting up. And maybe disappearing for a few months might do some good. Will then text her in the summer suggesting a drink and see what happens. Meanwhile I will see if I can line up some other dates for the summer.