Is this girl dateable for me?

[AceTheBrain]

I'm 30 - she is 20

- VERY cute face, very curvy, tall body. She is about 15-20 lbs too heavy for me but today she asked me if I can train her (I said absolutely). Her body will be 100/10 once she dials it in a little bit. She has exactly the body type I want - huge ass, huge legs, wide hips small waist, etc...

- in school to be a doctor. This is a big turn off for me. I really wish she just had a normal job. Med school is very hard and stressful, residency is awful. I don't want her to work these crazy hours

- genuinely very good person. Always on time on our dates, never flakes on me, never ignores my texts. I've actually flaked on her twice and she was very interested in me anyways, not materialistic, not superficial. Really is a good person


Is it worth it for me to pursue this?

 

[Serenity]

Is it worth it for me to pursue this?

That's really up to you. Nothing you mentioned is to me anything I'd universally recommend staying away from.

 

[sangheilios]

She looks a lot older than 20, I'd think she was around my age, late twenties or so.

Anyway, she is attractive and obviously intelligent, has goals, interests, etc.....which is something that the vast majority of women in their 20s cannot say for themselves lol. I also see that you wrote about enjoying her personality and that she comes across as genuine and does not plan mind games, again something that is rare for a lot of young women.

However, while others might make fun of you for seeing her career choice as a potential issue I do in fact see how you might feel that way. I might be incorrect, but it appears that you view this woman as a potential long term girlfriend. You recognize that her career choice may be problematic in that she will have very little, if any, time to spend with you and that is in fact an issue. This is something you'll have to answer for yourself and not something a bunch of random posters on a forum can solve for you.

I personally would not be interested in getting into a relationship with someone who I could barely spend time with, I'd just see that as a waste instead of just meeting other women who are more available.

 

[RickTheToad]

A bit shallow, no? Why not date and see if you mesh well; if that is what you want to do. Why are you planning so far down the line? Just hang out with her and see where it goes. A wise man once told me it's much easier to get a lady to lose weight than to get a b!tchy lady to turn into a kind generous lady.

 

[RickTheToad]

OP, if you are in the NY Metro area, PM me her contact info and I'll test her out for you. I'll get her ass in shape and prime everything up for ya. ;'p

 

[backseatjuan]

I don't want her to work these crazy hours

Translation - I want a girlfriend.

Most problem step from men sicking a relationship. If she's a plate from the beginning, there'd be no questions.

 

[Atom Smasher]

That was Bigdave masquerading as a new member.

 

[RickTheToad]

That was Bigdave masquerading as a new member.

Seriously?

 

[Atom Smasher]

Yup.

 

[Spaz]

Well at least he's dating now.

 

[mrgoodstuff]

That was Bigdave masquerading as a new member.

His same scientific assessment. His same focus on looksmaxxing

 

[spinich]

That sh*t stain just doesn't give up on ruining this forum.

 

[Serenity]

That was Bigdave masquerading as a new member.

You're probably not going to reveal the secret, but I am curious about how you guys figure that out. I'm thinking IP or email, but surely you can ban an IP or email address. So what identifier is left if they don't reuse any of those?

 

[mrgoodstuff]

You're probably not going to reveal the secret, but I am curious about how you guys figure that out. I'm thinking IP or email, but surely you can ban an IP or email address. So what identifier is left if they don't reuse any of those?

His thought process

 

[Spaz]

His thought process

Always a dead give away.

 

[Serenity]

His thought process

I'm assuming the mods have more to go on than just that.

 

[mrgoodstuff]

I'm assuming the mods have more to go on than just that.

Its pretty clearly him. The same scheme and over analyzing.

 

[lamath]

Its so easy to spot Dave.

He is always trying to find reason to not go for the girl.

 

[Spaz]

He is always trying to find reason to not go for the girl.

Hahaha

You just diagnosed him Dr. Lamath!

 

[Alvafe]

i'm curious other then alwyas find a reason to not date, why was he banned anyway?