Is this creepy?

[itishe]

I think so, but wanted your guy's opinion.

Meet a girl in class today that you just noticed. She's cute and you introduce yourself and have some small talk. In walks professor and hands out final, everyone's mouths shut and you're taking the test. You get done with the test but you want her number, she's not close to be doing so you don't plan on sitting around waiting.

Seeing as I have her name is it creepy to add her to facebook?

 

[alwaysimproving7]

you talk to girls before and after class to build rapport NOT in class when the professor is talking or when people are taking a test...get what im sayin? lol

And yes it is creepy if you never talked to her and just look her up on facebook. She's gonna think you're a stalker. Common sense bro.

 

[Scars]

It's generally better to talk to someone face to face and build a little rapport with them before adding them on an online social network. So to answer your question, is it creepy? Yes, maybe. Have I done it? Sure. But you're more likely to see a drop in your success rate.

 

[MisterMcGee]

i added some girls on facebook cause we started a study group.
try that
lol



or talk to her before/after class - facebook wont get you anywhere

 

[itishe]

Guys, reread what I posted.

TODAY WAS FINALS. No more class.

 

[MisterMcGee]

Then sure add her on facebook if you're never gonna see her again, just dont be creepy. if youve got some value from class you should be fine.

 

[PerfectCircle]

If your asking yourself if its creepy, then it is.

The thing is, that it can be done, without being projected as creepy.

But unfortunately, if you have to question whether it is or not, then your going to come off as creepy.

Now I question why your first and only Introduction was during finals, and why you even want to persue this, but NONETHELESS. Here we go..

The ONLY way you can pull this off from the position your in, IS TO BE UPFRONT AND GENUINE WITH YOUR INTENTIONS. (BUT DONT OVER DUE IT) Some kind of message that states something like this:

"Listen, I know I have had about 2 minutes of experience talking to you, but their was something I liked about it... To be honest, Adding you to Facebook doesnt feel like the most Natural way of getting the chance to know you, But im doing it anyway. Hoping to hear from you, PerfectCircle."

 

[itishe]

If your asking yourself if its creepy, then it is.

The thing is, that it can be done, without being projected as creepy.

But unfortunately, if you have to question whether it is or not, then your going to come off as creepy.

Now I question why your first and only Introduction was during finals, and why you even want to persue this, but NONETHELESS. Here we go..

The ONLY way you can pull this off from the position your in, IS TO BE UPFRONT AND GENUINE WITH YOUR INTENTIONS. (BUT DONT OVER DUE IT) Some kind of message that states something like this:

"Listen, I know I have had about 2 minutes of experience talking to you, but their was something I liked about it... To be honest, Adding you to Facebook doesnt feel like the most Natural way of getting the chance to know you, But im doing it anyway. Hoping to hear from you, PerfectCircle."

That sounds like you're trying too hard to be honest.

 

[MisterMcGee]

If your asking yourself if its creepy, then it is.

The thing is, that it can be done, without being projected as creepy.

But unfortunately, if you have to question whether it is or not, then your going to come off as creepy.

Now I question why your first and only Introduction was during finals, and why you even want to persue this, but NONETHELESS. Here we go..

The ONLY way you can pull this off from the position your in, IS TO BE UPFRONT AND GENUINE WITH YOUR INTENTIONS. (BUT DONT OVER DUE IT) Some kind of message that states something like this:

"Listen, I know I have had about 2 minutes of experience talking to you, but their was something I liked about it... To be honest, Adding you to Facebook doesnt feel like the most Natural way of getting the chance to know you, But im doing it anyway. Hoping to hear from you, PerfectCircle."

Wow thats bad. Don't do that. You don't even know what "creepy" means. THAT is a typical creepy thing to say.
And it's over do, not over due.

 

[pua1989]

agreed with mcgee..that message is creepy as hell. my group of friends hang out with some hot girls and they are constantly getting messages like that...either a) just add b) say "was i the only one who bombed that xxxxxx final? haha" or c) dont add at all (what id do, then just wait to run into her in person on campus)

 

[Crazy Asian]

If your asking yourself if its creepy, then it is.

The thing is, that it can be done, without being projected as creepy.

But unfortunately, if you have to question whether it is or not, then your going to come off as creepy.

Now I question why your first and only Introduction was during finals, and why you even want to persue this, but NONETHELESS. Here we go..

The ONLY way you can pull this off from the position your in, IS TO BE UPFRONT AND GENUINE WITH YOUR INTENTIONS. (BUT DONT OVER DUE IT) Some kind of message that states something like this:

"Listen, I know I have had about 2 minutes of experience talking to you, but their was something I liked about it... To be honest, Adding you to Facebook doesnt feel like the most Natural way of getting the chance to know you, But im doing it anyway. Hoping to hear from you, PerfectCircle."

whatever you do, don't send a message like this.

 

[itishe]

Yeah, I never planned on sending a message like that. I wish to get laid, not peppersprayed.

Eh, I think I'll have to pass on this broad just seems too weird for me to add her like this. It's like me finding her number in the phone book because I know her name and just randomly call her up.