"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Is this cheating?

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the girl that i thoguht I'd established that i'm on a break with while shes at college[i was "allowed ot date, hookup with girls, do w/e"], came back, we fvcked, it was a godo weekend, now considers us "together" again[I *did* call her my "girlfriend" when my friend asked who i was with on the phone once..]
Like I feel bad cause shes back in like 4 days for thanksgiving and that'd be fun to have sex with her a lot all weekend..but i honestly cant handle her being gone so much, and all thsi tied-down-ness.
anyways this girl wants to jump my nuts tonight because shes on the rebound as of last week wants to chill.
I dont have interest in fvcking her tonight, just maybe that dome piece.
so is this cheating? and is it still cheating if i dont make it "officially" a break until afterwards?
iuno. any input?
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Dome is still getting some from a girl.

And this isn't the girl that you called your girlfriend.

You make the decision.

But... is dome really THAT worth it? Think about if you held out for a few more days... you won't have guilt... and you can happily lay your girlfriend guilt-free.
 
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but since I'm going back on "break" status with her, is it still cheating?
 
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Patrick124 said:
but since I'm going back on "break" status with her, is it still cheating?
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depends on what she considers cheating.

anyways if you're going to see her in a few days... well, you know... i've already said it on my first reply... dome is pointless.
 
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It was like two days ago you were having a threesome... Sounds to me like you're juggling 10 chicks. :rolleyes:
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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nah, actualy this is the same girl. i mentioned she was at college both times, didn't I?
the threesome idea was sounding tight, but she bailed and said "maybe for your birthday" which is in a month.
and she was in town at that moment, when shes in town i love being with ehr.
when shes gone...not so much.
 
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it's not cheating unless you get caught :moon:
 
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Who cares? Live life up you only live once, and I'm assuming you're still young. (don't cheat on well let's say a wife)
 
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