"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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Is this cheating?

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the girl that i thoguht I'd established that i'm on a break with while shes at college[i was "allowed ot date, hookup with girls, do w/e"], came back, we fvcked, it was a godo weekend, now considers us "together" again[I *did* call her my "girlfriend" when my friend asked who i was with on the phone once..]
Like I feel bad cause shes back in like 4 days for thanksgiving and that'd be fun to have sex with her a lot all weekend..but i honestly cant handle her being gone so much, and all thsi tied-down-ness.
anyways this girl wants to jump my nuts tonight because shes on the rebound as of last week wants to chill.
I dont have interest in fvcking her tonight, just maybe that dome piece.
so is this cheating? and is it still cheating if i dont make it "officially" a break until afterwards?
iuno. any input?
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Dome is still getting some from a girl.

And this isn't the girl that you called your girlfriend.

You make the decision.

But... is dome really THAT worth it? Think about if you held out for a few more days... you won't have guilt... and you can happily lay your girlfriend guilt-free.
 
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but since I'm going back on "break" status with her, is it still cheating?
 
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Michele l'Arcangelo

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Patrick124 said:
but since I'm going back on "break" status with her, is it still cheating?
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depends on what she considers cheating.

anyways if you're going to see her in a few days... well, you know... i've already said it on my first reply... dome is pointless.
 
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It was like two days ago you were having a threesome... Sounds to me like you're juggling 10 chicks. :rolleyes:
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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nah, actualy this is the same girl. i mentioned she was at college both times, didn't I?
the threesome idea was sounding tight, but she bailed and said "maybe for your birthday" which is in a month.
and she was in town at that moment, when shes in town i love being with ehr.
when shes gone...not so much.
 
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it's not cheating unless you get caught :moon:
 
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Who cares? Live life up you only live once, and I'm assuming you're still young. (don't cheat on well let's say a wife)
 
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