"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Is this cheating?

Patrick124

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the girl that i thoguht I'd established that i'm on a break with while shes at college[i was "allowed ot date, hookup with girls, do w/e"], came back, we fvcked, it was a godo weekend, now considers us "together" again[I *did* call her my "girlfriend" when my friend asked who i was with on the phone once..]
Like I feel bad cause shes back in like 4 days for thanksgiving and that'd be fun to have sex with her a lot all weekend..but i honestly cant handle her being gone so much, and all thsi tied-down-ness.
anyways this girl wants to jump my nuts tonight because shes on the rebound as of last week wants to chill.
I dont have interest in fvcking her tonight, just maybe that dome piece.
so is this cheating? and is it still cheating if i dont make it "officially" a break until afterwards?
iuno. any input?
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

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Dome is still getting some from a girl.

And this isn't the girl that you called your girlfriend.

You make the decision.

But... is dome really THAT worth it? Think about if you held out for a few more days... you won't have guilt... and you can happily lay your girlfriend guilt-free.
 

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but since I'm going back on "break" status with her, is it still cheating?
 

Michele l'Arcangelo

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Patrick124 said:
but since I'm going back on "break" status with her, is it still cheating?
depends on what she considers cheating.

anyways if you're going to see her in a few days... well, you know... i've already said it on my first reply... dome is pointless.
 

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It was like two days ago you were having a threesome... Sounds to me like you're juggling 10 chicks. :rolleyes:
 

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I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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nah, actualy this is the same girl. i mentioned she was at college both times, didn't I?
the threesome idea was sounding tight, but she bailed and said "maybe for your birthday" which is in a month.
and she was in town at that moment, when shes in town i love being with ehr.
when shes gone...not so much.
 

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it's not cheating unless you get caught :moon:
 

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Who cares? Live life up you only live once, and I'm assuming you're still young. (don't cheat on well let's say a wife)
 
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