"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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the girl that i thoguht I'd established that i'm on a break with while shes at college[i was "allowed ot date, hookup with girls, do w/e"], came back, we fvcked, it was a godo weekend, now considers us "together" again[I *did* call her my "girlfriend" when my friend asked who i was with on the phone once..]
Like I feel bad cause shes back in like 4 days for thanksgiving and that'd be fun to have sex with her a lot all weekend..but i honestly cant handle her being gone so much, and all thsi tied-down-ness.
anyways this girl wants to jump my nuts tonight because shes on the rebound as of last week wants to chill.
I dont have interest in fvcking her tonight, just maybe that dome piece.
so is this cheating? and is it still cheating if i dont make it "officially" a break until afterwards?
iuno. any input?
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Dome is still getting some from a girl.

And this isn't the girl that you called your girlfriend.

You make the decision.

But... is dome really THAT worth it? Think about if you held out for a few more days... you won't have guilt... and you can happily lay your girlfriend guilt-free.
 
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but since I'm going back on "break" status with her, is it still cheating?
 
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Patrick124 said:
but since I'm going back on "break" status with her, is it still cheating?
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depends on what she considers cheating.

anyways if you're going to see her in a few days... well, you know... i've already said it on my first reply... dome is pointless.
 
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It was like two days ago you were having a threesome... Sounds to me like you're juggling 10 chicks. :rolleyes:
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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nah, actualy this is the same girl. i mentioned she was at college both times, didn't I?
the threesome idea was sounding tight, but she bailed and said "maybe for your birthday" which is in a month.
and she was in town at that moment, when shes in town i love being with ehr.
when shes gone...not so much.
 
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it's not cheating unless you get caught :moon:
 
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Who cares? Live life up you only live once, and I'm assuming you're still young. (don't cheat on well let's say a wife)
 
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